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Give Me a Word 2023

In ancient times, wise men and women fled out into the desert to find a place where they could be fully present to the divine and to their own inner struggles at work within them. The desert became a place to enter into the refiner’s fire and be stripped down to one’s holy essence. The desert was a threshold place where you emerged different than when you entered.

Many people followed these ammas and abbas, seeking their wisdom and guidance for a meaningful life. One tradition was to ask for a word – this word or phrase would be something on which to ponder for many days, weeks, months, sometimes a whole lifetime. This practice is connected to lectio divina, where we approach the sacred texts with the same request – “give me a word” we ask – something to nourish me, challenge me, a word I can wrestle with and grow into. The word which chooses us has the potential to transform us.

What is your word for the year ahead? A word which contains within it a seed of invitation to cross a new threshold in your life?

Share your word in the comments section below by January 5, 2023 and you are automatically entered for the prize drawing (prizes listed below).

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As in past years, we are offering all Abbey newsletter subscribers a gift: a free 12-day online mini-retreat with a suggested practice for each day to help your word choose you and to deepen into your word once it has found you. Even if you participated last year, you are more than welcome to register again.

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Please share your word with us in the comments below

(and it would be wonderful if you included a sentence about what it means for you)

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475 Responses

  1. My word is PRESCIENT

    When it fell into my consciousness I was aware of such a feeling of joy and optimism at the same time, I knew it had to be the word for me.

    Now I am beginning to travel with the word and wondering what its meaning signifies for me. I am reminded that the divine is omniscient, which again has uplifted me.

  2. My word is Joy…seeing each day through the eyes and heart with joy, listening , obeying and trusting, seeing all experiences both ordinary and extraordinary as conveying Gods presence and message.

  3. The word that has come to me is JOY. I have written it on each page of my journal to remind me to look for joy in my days. And to pay attention and notice what sparks joy for me. The joy is there and always has been but sometimes I miss it because I am not looking for it, noticing it, paying attention to it. It is calling out to me now – pay attention. Take joy!

  4. My word is “SURRENDER”
    To Let Go, To just BE, to let go of my Ego
    Wants and Desires to have whether security or affection or just stuff.
    To surrender my ego so that I may better observe, listen and serve the Divinity that is everywhere and in All.

  5. My word for this year is “illumine”.
    I like that it’s a verb, asking me to take action to spread light and brightness, and not to simply be a passive recipient of others’ light.
    I also like the alternate definition: “to enlighten (someone) spiritually or intellectually.”
    That is what I am seeking to do in my writing and consulting.

  6. HAPPENING
    Life is happening all around me all of the time, no matter how stuck or lost or lonely I feel sometimes. And just because I can’t see or feel the evidence of things yet doesn’t mean it’s not already in motion. It’s all happening.

  7. distill…ANCHOR…commit.

    Anchor,
    rest and wait.
    Settle in,
    Settle down,
    allow.
    Observe what occurs
    when I center down,
    ground spirit into the roots
    breathe and wait,
    open all the spaces in the body
    to whatever evolves.
    Anchor into stillness
    and let the heart speak.

  8. My word is “united”

    Look at the clouds
    How they unite then part.
    All white then grey
    And now blue sky showing in

    Where is the edge
    Where is its beginning
    Sometimes it lies
    As fog on the earth
    Other times it disappears
    It seems, but no
    It’s essence is there
    Somewhere

    And that is how
    All things can be.

  9. My word for 2023 is “RENEW”. As soon as this word came to mind, there were two scriptures – Psalm 51:10 “Create in me a clean heart and renew a right spirit within me” & Isaiah 40:31 “they that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength.”
    Thank you for offering this annual give-me-a -word time of reflection.

  10. The word that found me is “humility” and an awareness that it is my humility in relation to God that is being called forth…which can and must be lived in my humility in life, with others…but also must spring forth from my being willing to bow to God, to yield to God’s plan, God’s will as primary…to say with my brother Jesus…”i can of mine own self do nothing” and “it is the Father that worth in me that doth the works”