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Give Me a Word 2023

In ancient times, wise men and women fled out into the desert to find a place where they could be fully present to the divine and to their own inner struggles at work within them. The desert became a place to enter into the refiner’s fire and be stripped down to one’s holy essence. The desert was a threshold place where you emerged different than when you entered.

Many people followed these ammas and abbas, seeking their wisdom and guidance for a meaningful life. One tradition was to ask for a word – this word or phrase would be something on which to ponder for many days, weeks, months, sometimes a whole lifetime. This practice is connected to lectio divina, where we approach the sacred texts with the same request – “give me a word” we ask – something to nourish me, challenge me, a word I can wrestle with and grow into. The word which chooses us has the potential to transform us.

What is your word for the year ahead? A word which contains within it a seed of invitation to cross a new threshold in your life?

Share your word in the comments section below by January 5, 2023 and you are automatically entered for the prize drawing (prizes listed below).

A FREE 12-DAY ONLINE MINI-RETREAT TO HELP YOUR WORD CHOOSE YOU. . .

As in past years, we are offering all Abbey newsletter subscribers a gift: a free 12-day online mini-retreat with a suggested practice for each day to help your word choose you and to deepen into your word once it has found you. Even if you participated last year, you are more than welcome to register again.

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Please share your word with us in the comments below

(and it would be wonderful if you included a sentence about what it means for you)

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475 Responses

  1. It came to me like a bolt from the blue on the way to church this morning, after having not a single inkling as we led up to today: “fully alive,” as in “the glory of God is man (woman, in my case) fully alive.” — St Irenaeus

    No idea how that popped up when it did, but it’s so clearly my word!

  2. My Word for 2023 is “Hovering”. God’s Spirit hovers over all creation, all I see, my aging life, my family, beauty in nature, and all the chaos in the world. What a wonderful comfort that is–such a promise of life giving water of flowing, loving, continuing Presence.

  3. My word is Alive, but I have been most amazed by the process and the succession of words that arose as possibilities. Alive was the only one that I could write a poem with.

    A New Year’s Prayer

    Aware of the fragility
    of life and the
    inevitability of death
    I choose to

    Live each day
    as fully as possible
    to savor the gifts
    You have bestowed

    In gratitude for
    the full range of human
    emotion and Your presence
    in the hardest times I

    Venture into the coming year
    eyes bright with anticipation
    ears attentive to Your voice
    mouth ready to sing Your praise

    Eager to explore
    the next chapter
    open to the Spirit’s breath
    within and through me

  4. My word for 2023 is “purgation,” a need to purge myself of outdated and negative habits, and unquenching thoughts…..a need for inner cleansing.

  5. My Wors for 2023 is “Hovering”. The Spirit of God is hovering over all I see, over all chaos in this world, and over my life. So comforting–Such a life- giving promose of Loving Presence.