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The Sweetness (and Sadness) of Leaving

Published: July 20, 2012
Categories: Pilgrimage

The view from our ship back toward the Verrazano Narrows Bridge – our last view of the U.S. before heading across the North Atlantic to our new home. . .

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Barbara says:

July 23, 2012 at 10:59 am

Bon Voyage!
Maureen says:

July 20, 2012 at 1:05 pm

Great image!

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