Give Me a Word: An Ancient Practice to Guide Your Year

Nov 30, 2025 – Jan 6, 2026 @ 4:00 pm GMT – 5:30 pm GMT –
with Christine Valters Paintner and Guest Teachers
Since 2008 we have posted an annual invitation to listen for a word to guide them in the year ahead. We would share a few short and simple practices with hundreds of people participating. Now Christine has published a book about the process and this retreat is a companion to it, providing additional guidance and support to contemplate what holiness is birthing within your soul. Each day there will be a different practice offered to inspire, challenge, and support you in listening for the word that wants to be spoken to your heart.
Give Me a Word: The Promise of an Ancient Practice to Guide Your Year

Order Now Give Me a Word Retreat Reflection Guide Small Group Leader’s Guide Early Reviews “VERDICT An excellent book for readers interested in finding a new meditation technique or nonsectarian spiritual practice or who simply want to slow down and give more depth to their lives.” – Marjorie Mann, Library Journal. Read the full review […]
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Christine Interviewed by The Center for Action and Contemplation about Her Book “Give Me a Word”

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